A Simple Communication Truth

“The single biggest problem in communication is the
illusion that it has taken place.â€Â ~ George Bernard Shaw

Thank you Mr. Shaw for those simple but concise words.  Whether on a verbal or physical level, the accuracy and clarity of communication is always the challenge. What does one say and how is it said? What does one hear and how is it received?  While living in a foreign country, I am regularly reminded of the not only individualistic influences, but the cultural as well.

Interacting daily with people using English as a second language (which is remarkable in itself) often refreshes my ability, desire, and willingness to listen more closely–less is assumed and each word is received more consciously.  The presentation is often in their language’s style and rhythm which creates a different flow,  yet another variation and reason to tune in.  The facial expressions, hand gestures, physical distance all add to the differences.  It is often a case of gratitude that the words are recognizable, but the receiver must become a willing, flexible recipient.  This willingness encourages the deliverer to relax, trust, and continue with the effort. A relationship/partnership is formed even if for a moment to ask directions or buy something in a shop.

Selfseeds Partnering

Just ran across this article which is relevant to my blog observations on cultural differences in communication.

Why free speech is baffling to many